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3 Luxurious and Socially-Distant Getaways Near NYC

Mike Tommasiello | February 11, 2021 | Lifestyle

Nemacolin private resort, the Chateau exterior

The Nemacolin private resort in Farmington, PA., was recently used as the location for ABC's The Bachelor. This is the exterior of their Falling Rock building.

While the world slowly comes out of its COVID-19 fog, people have begun to feel more adventurous. Some are leaving their homes for weekend getaways in less densely-populated areas - those who haven’t already left for warm and sandy beaches, that is.

Plotting our trek out of the city, we filled our 2021 Lincoln Aviator with supplies and set out to discover the best places for a safe, socially-distant getaway near New York City. Some of these places are a couple hours drive, so comfort is key. The Lincoln Aviator’s seats have built in back massagers. Honestly, we found the drive a little too short.

See also: 16 Romantic Things To Do On Valentine's Day In NYC

Reform Club in Amagansett, NY

REFORM CLUB exterior

23 Windmill Ln., Amagansett, NY / Website

Starting with the closest to NYC, urbanites who head east to the Hamptons or Montauk are sure to know Reform Club in Amagansett. Having opened the summer of 2020 to much fanfare, it's the perfect spot for a cozy weekend getaway. With only seven suites, three cottages and one residence they call “the 21 House" (a four-bedroom, four-bathroom private home), Reform Club offers the chance to commune with nature without having to drive too far. It also offers cruiser bicycles, beach equipment and a fully equipped fitness center. Private chefs are available for an in-room dining experience upon request.

Urban Cowboy Lodge in Catskills, NY

Urban Cowboy Lodge in the Catskills, interior

37 Alpine Rd., Big Indian, NY / Website

For those who really want to be in nature, we suggest heading a little further north to the famed Urban Cowboy Lodge in Big Indian, New York. Clocking in at a two-and-a-half-hour drive, this sanctuary offers an elevated camping experience. Known for their chic suites and in-suite bathtub, the picturesque views of the stars over the mountains will lull you to sleep. If that doesn’t do it for you, their collection of local wines absolutely will. While on-site dining is limited due to covid restrictions, the Lodge encourages you to order pick up from neighboring restaurants Peekamoose, Silvia in Woodstock and Phoenicia Diner. These are all places you’ve likely seen on Instagram, and they're all worth the trip.

Nemacolin in Farmington, PA

Nemacolin chateau pool

1001 Lafayette Dr., Farmington, PA Website

Move across state lines on a real adventure and land in the relaxing grounds of Pennsylvania's Allegheny Mountains. Nemacolin is a private resort that most recently served as the backdrop to ABC's The Bachelor. Activities include private candlelit dinners with a tasting menu and pairings, custom spa treatments, sip and paints, horse drawn carriage rides and ice skating. For the more adventurous, you can book a date with car racing, hot-air balloons and horseback riding. Located five hours from the heart of NYC, Nemacolin will transport you to a different state of being.

Photography by: Jordan Millington; Courtesy Reform Club; Courtesy Urban Cowboy Lodge